The article "9 Introvert Behaviors That Seem Weird But Have a Purpose" from Introvert, Dear explores common introverted behaviors that may appear unusual to others but serve essential functions for introverts. 

It's an excellent article that led me to sit down and examine my own introverted behavior and how I show up in the world Here is my POV.

 

1) Ignoring Phone Calls: Introverts often find phone calls intrusive, especially during their private time. They may prefer not to answer calls unless they're from work or loved ones, as speaking can be draining and they value their alone time. (I almost never give out my mobile number. In fact, fewer than 10 people even have it and have permission to use it!)

 

2) Disappearing and Reappearing: Disappearing and Reappearing: Introverts might withdraw from social interactions to recharge, leading them to not respond to messages immediately or seek solitude. This behavior is a form of self-care, allowing them to regain energy. (Absolutely true! I wear out very quickly in social situations where I am not hosting or cooking and my best friend describes my "at the end of my rope" behavior as Ass & Elbows. She insists that is all you will see of me as I exit the event at a run!)

 

3) Strong Connection to Animals: Many introverts feel a deep bond with animals, finding comfort and understanding in their companionship. Animals provide non-judgmental relationships, which can be soothing for introverts. (Ask me about my #FelineOfficeAssistants!)

 

4) Preferring to Work Alone: Introverts often thrive in solitary work environments where they can focus deeply without distractions. Collaborative settings may feel overwhelming, making solo work more appealing. (I work from my beautifully appointed home office and always will. I run with scissors and don't play well with others. I require massive quiet time.)

 

5) Needing Time to Process Thoughts: Before responding, introverts may take a moment to think things through. This pause allows them to formulate meaningful and well-considered responses. (Not always, but most of the time. I can find myself agreeing to something that I really don't want to do if I don't pause as my natural inclination is to solve or help...)

 

6) Avoiding Crowded Places: Large gatherings or crowded areas can be overstimulating for introverts. They may choose quieter, more peaceful environments to feel comfortable and at ease. (#MardiGras is next week... guess where I WON'T be.)

 

7) Enjoying Deep Conversations: Introverts often prefer meaningful, in-depth discussions over small talk. Superficial conversations can feel draining, while deeper dialogues are fulfilling. (Absolutely true. Fascinating people will always hold my attention—those who bring insight, curiosity, and depth to a conversation make for truly engaging and memorable interactions. And now you know why I have been podcasting for 17 years. I get to meet the most amazing people from all over the world!)

 

8) Being Observant: Introverts tend to notice details that others might overlook. Their observant nature allows them to pick up on subtle cues and changes in their environment. (We also tend to ‘hear’ things that people aren’t actually articulating out loud. Reading between the lines so to speak.)

 

9) Lost in Thought, Not Zoned Out: Introverts have rich inner worlds and often drift into deep thought or daydreaming. While this might seem unproductive or even odd to others, it serves an important purpose. These moments allow us to process emotions, reflect on experiences, and explore creative ideas. When we appear distant or unfocused, we’re often fully engaged in our own minds—contemplating, problem-solving, or simply recharging from external stimulation. So, if you catch us staring off into space, it’s not disengagement—it’s a quiet moment of introspection and mental renewal.

And a final thought: Many introverts find writing to be a more natural way to express themselves, as it allows time to organize thoughts without the pressure of immediate response. However, being a highly committed introvert doesn’t necessarily mean discomfort with speaking. (Personally, I’m quite comfortable with both. I’m not shy, and don’t have much in the way of filters, so I have no trouble expressing myself—whether in writing or conversation.)

As an introvert how do you show up in the world?

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